Did You Know…

38% of teen girls and 39% of teen boys say they have had sexually suggestive text messages or emails — originally meant for someone else — shared with them.

Digital Safety

You’ve probably learned a long list of important safety and privacy lessons already: Look both ways before crossing the street; buckle up; hide your diary where your nosy brother can’t find it; don’t talk to strangers.

The Federal Trade Commission, the nation’s consumer protection agency, is urging kids to add one more lesson to the list: Don’t post information about yourself online that you don’t want the whole world to know. The Internet is the world’s biggest information exchange: many more people could see your information than you intend, including your parents, your teachers, your employer, the police — and strangers, some of whom could be dangerous.

Social networking sites have added a new factor to the “friends of friends” equation. By providing information about yourself and using blogs, chat rooms, email, or instant messaging, you can communicate, either within a limited community, or with the world at large. But while the sites can increase your circle of friends, they also can increase your exposure to people who have less-than-friendly intentions. You’ve heard the stories about people who were stalked by someone they met online, had t heir identity stolen, or had their computer hacked.

Your Safety’s at Stake

The FTC suggests these tips for socializing safely online:

  • Think about how different sites work before deciding to join a site. Some sites will allow only a defined community of users to access posted content; others allow anyone and everyone to view postings.
  • Think about keeping some control over the information you post. Consider restricting access to your page to a select group of people, for example, your friends from school, your club, your team, your community groups, your coworkers, or your family.
  • Keep your information to yourself. Don’t post your full name, Social Security number, address, phone number, or bank and credit card account numbers — and don’t post other people’s information, either. Be cautious about posting information that could be used to identify you or locate you offline. This could include the name of your school, sports team, clubs, and where you work or hang out.
  • Make sure your screen name doesn’t say too much about you. Don’t use your name, age, or hometown. Even if you think your screen name makes you anonymous, it doesn’t take a genius to combine clues to figure out who you are and where you can be found.
  • Post only information that you are comfortable with others seeing — and knowing — about you. Many people can see your page, including your parents, teachers, police, the college you might want to apply to next year, or the job you might want to apply for in five years.
  • Remember that once you post things digitally, you can’t take it back. Even if you delete the information or photo from a site, older versions exist on other people’s computers or cell phones. For information on “Sexting“.
  • Consider not posting your photo. It can be altered and broadcast in ways you may not be happy about. If you do post one, ask yourself whether it’s one your mom would display in the living room.
  • Flirting with strangers online could have serious consequences. Because some people lie about who they really are, you never really know who you’re dealing with.
  • Be wary if a new online friend wants to meet you in person. Before you decide to meet someone, do your research: Ask whether any of your friends know the person, and see what background you can dig up through online search engines. If you decide to meet them, be smart about it: Meet in a public place, during the day, with friends you trust. Tell an adult or a responsible sibling where you’re going, and when you expect to be back.
  • Trust your gut if you have suspicions. If you feel threatened by someone or uncomfortable because of something online, tell and adult you trust and report it to the police and the social networking site. You could end up preventing someone else from becoming a victim.
(Source: Federal Trade Commission)

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Prevent Child Victimization

All children may be at risk of victimization. Encourage your child to come to you immediately if anyone makes him or her feel uncomfortable online or makes overtures to meet in person.

Signs an online predator may be connecting with your child:
--Your child becomes withdrawn and isolated from family and friends.

--You find inappropriate material on the computer.

--Your child receives mail, money, or gifts from unknown people.

--You see unknown phone numbers when reviewing the phone bill.

What to do if your child is victimized:
--Make it clear that the victimization is not his or her fault.

--Save all evidence of victimization, such as e-mails or instant message conversations.

--Contact your local law-enforcement agency.

--Make a report to the CyberTipline® at www.cybertipline.com or 1-800-THE-LOST® and include all information available.